I'm at a loss at what to do I can not get anything from my ramps 1.4. I just don't have a head for electronics I need a lot of help

If you can ask a more specific question, you'll get more help. Are you stuck trying to wire it up, loading the firmware, connecting to it?

With a request that vague I would suggest lobbing at your local hackerspace. They will be able to work out what you are actually asking.