truobleshooting steppenplan with ramps 1.4 and my steppermotors

hi there

I need a little bit help because getting frustrated and confused and i lost my patience. i need a good starting point to solve the problems that i have with my steppermotors .the z-axis is functioning when turn on the display for example 10mm the only thing is that i doubting about the fact of they turning in the right direction. only the x-motor and the y-motor shakes and vibrating when i give up x-amount mm of movement in the display. what are the correct color order to wire my steppermotors these are my steppermotors [nl.aliexpress.com] and what is the + and the - from 1a and 1b and 2a and 2b from the ramps 1.4 it stands never-where descripted on the internet . what is the right/correct wire order. i know that i can change it also in the firmware(i am using marlin 1.1.9) but for now it look me right to wire it firstly correct. but what is the right wire order. i have try also to re-flash marlin but that gives a error in arduino IDE(stk500v2_disable() failed to leave programming) to get a right and fresh starting point.i am a little bit be quite the trail. what is a good approach and steppenplan to solve the problems( and close things out) that i have with the steppenmotors. by the way the extrudr motor dont work on the extruderports but when i plug the extrudermotor on a other axis-port then the work.

what is a right steppenplan??

Wiring is the same as originally used stepper driver A4988



Work out what wires are your two coils and connect as indicated.