The example image from BTT seems to be a two normally open switches in one housing.
The mains cable is connected as following.
The live and the neutral both go to this switches separate input pins. (it makes or breaks both the live and the neutral wires with one switch movement)
The earth goes directly to the power supply
The live from the switch output goes to the Lin on the relay
The neutral from the switch output goes to N on the relay
The neutral on the power supply is connected to the one N pin on the relay
The live on the power supply is connected to LOT pin of the relay.
As for your plug... the switch seem to be the same type (check it with multi meter)
So in this case the load is the relay board, but the earth goes directly to the power supply.